The Ruins of Nostalgia 67
Every time we went back to the city that used to be home, the housing prices
had gone up. Did you see the latest? Our relatives said. The old Anderson
house across the street went for $xxx,xxx. Three blocks over, they’re trying to
get $xxx,xxx for a teardown. Every time we went back to the city that used
to
be home, more unprofitable bungalows had been torn down, and more
modernist boxes that filled the lots had been rapidly thrown up. Bungalow
after bungalow was disappearing in a city of bungalows. Garden after garden
was disappearing in a city of gardens. Every time we went back to the city
that used to be home, there were more profitable modernist boxes and fewer
gardens, there were fewer and fewer of the landmarks
that helped us
remember that this was the city that used to be home. Every
time we went
back to that city, we thought about houses, we thought about
home. We
thought about the fact that realtors now called houses for sale “homes.”
Home after home was disappearing, but “home” after “home” was being
rapidly thrown up. Someday soon, new people would be calling these
“homes” “home.” Would it matter that none of them knew that, four owners
back, the unprofitable bungalow on that lot had been owned by the
Andersons, and that one afternoon we had watched in horror as old Mr.
Anderson fell from a ladder while trying to prune his blackberry bush, or that
one May Day we had picked a bouquet of daisies and dusty miller for old
Mrs.
Anderson and then sat awkwardly in her dark living room, wishing we
were
outside playing kickball with our friends? Everyone thinks they got in
on the
ground floor of time. Everyone thinks they arrived in the city just
before the
city turned, like the milk that never turns in the city’s lattes, like
the cream
that isn’t really cream in the vegan cucumber ice cream. And
maybe we did—maybe we did all arrive in the city just before the city
turned. Maybe we did
all arrive at the best spot in history, just before
everything started to go
south. And maybe that is why we know that, for
now, the only home we can
count on is in the ruins of nostalgia.